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Behind the Scenes: Allume

31Days, Behind The Scenes

WHAT IS THE “BEHIND THE SCENES” LINK UP? 

Social media and online relationships can make us feel like everyone else has it all together. We’re edited, proof-read, Pinterest-perfect versions of ourselves  (or so some might think!) when – in reality? There is an unfinished pile of laundry around the corner. That cute toddler smiling for the camera just had a massive meltdown seconds ago. That yummy breakfast-for-dinner you just showed us on Instagram? It’s because the cat licked the chicken that was supposed to be for dinner. 

“Behind the Scenes” is a fun link up where we show those photos – but tell the real story behind them. The sneak peek behind the scenes, a look past the edges of the photo to the real life behind it. Read more here!

God was at work in some crazy ways at Allume this past weekend. I’ve re-written this sentence about 20 times, trying to capture the weekend with the right words. God kept me on my toes – running consistently about 5 minutes later than I would have preferred from the time my feet hit the airport in Greenville to the time they caught the shuttle home. In a move that was simply God knowing what was best for me, I never had time to get nervous about meetings or speaking – or, to my personal frustration, time to prepare. I had no other option than to walk in obedience, trusting that He would take care of the details, because at no point in the weekend was I worthy to be doing anything I was doing. 


  • I’m not a speaker – yet I was part of a panel with women I admire greatly.
  • I’m not a “big” blogger – yet I had lunch with women I consider in that category, and they knew who I was.
  • Any time I thought I knew what I was doing, I would stick my foot in my mouth or act a fool in front of someone I desperately wanted to meet. 
  • I’m a mama who is passionate about community and I was able to share that with two wonderful women.
  • I’m type-A and love taking notes at conferences – but God put it on my heart to just sit and be filled. To overflowing. 
  • I hate crying in public – and then Jennie Allen went and had me ugly sobbing all over sweet Anna.
  • Any planning I was supposed to do never happened – and when I got down low, God was raised high and filled my empty places. 

It was a backwards, unexpected, plan-free, grace-filled, hands-raised, dry bones becoming flesh, worship-filled, laughter-full, self laid low weekend with sweet sisters.

If you were at Allume and we met, I’m so glad. And I’m so sorry if my introverted side took over and I said something strange, forgot to encourage you, failed to listen to you, or missed an opportunity to pray with you. 
If you were at Allume and we didn’t get the chance to meet? I’m so sorry I wasn’t able to do that – I would have loved to have had the chance, but I pray that God connected you with a community of women who loved on you like crazy!
Behind the scenes of a four day blogging conference for Christian women was a God who melted my mind with the awesomeness – and a community of 450 shining stars whose lives will never be the same. 


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October 28, 2013 ·

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  1. Julie Wilson says

    November 4, 2013 at 9:03 pm

    a week later and I’m finally getting around to commenting! It was delightful to see your smiling face at Allume… and everything you said here… absolutely true! Not what I expected, but so much more!!

  2. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:31 am

    I adore you. That is all 🙂 So glad we got to meet!

  3. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:29 am

    Oh Shelly, it’s so good to “meet” you in this space! So glad to have you (and isn’t that Kris Camealy just the best?)!

  4. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:29 am

    It’s just like him, isn’t it? I kind of love the upside down 😉

  5. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:29 am

    {{hugs}} you are amazing, girl.

  6. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:28 am

    oh girl..lol..I never realize what a goofball I am until you put me in a smilebooth 😉

  7. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:27 am

    amen. that is all.

  8. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:27 am

    I just loved meeting you Laura! And by the time the weekend was over, I’m pretty sure I was all cried out 😉

  9. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:25 am

    It was such a sweet blessing to see your smiling face all weekend!

  10. Crystal says

    October 30, 2013 at 10:25 am

    It really was, Kimberly!

  11. Shelly Miller says

    October 30, 2013 at 8:08 am

    Crystal, I didn’t get the opportunity to meet you at Allume but I know you as Kris Camealy’s friend (who happens to also be a close friend of mine). I also lead a column at Bible Dude so I saw you on that tutorial Dan hosted recently. Anyway, I just learned about your link this morning when I clicked on someone’s post elsewhere. Lovely to join you in community here.

  12. Kim@onerebelheart says

    October 29, 2013 at 9:33 pm

    I’m so glad I got to speak to you at Allume, and I just love your heart for community. Isn’t it funny how God likes to turn our expectations upside down?

  13. Mel says

    October 29, 2013 at 8:06 pm

    So thankful for you and your heart, my friend. Already missing you and my beautiful sisters…so thankful that our community here is every day. 🙂 Love and hugs!

  14. Aprille {beautifulinhistime.co says

    October 29, 2013 at 4:19 pm

    It was so good to meet you, even in passing…and that bottom gif is my favorite from Allume! so cute!

  15. Tonya says

    October 29, 2013 at 3:44 pm

    One of THE best memories. You and me and a couch near the TV. Beautiful!

  16. Laura p says

    October 29, 2013 at 8:22 am

    I loved meeting you in person! I think that my “sisters” were the highlights of who I met. And I almost ugly cried (like the beginning of it) with you when Bianca was speaking. It was a life altering weekend in ways I never expected.

  17. melanieamoore says

    October 29, 2013 at 8:08 am

    LOVED seeing you, sweet friend… and yeah, I was doing the ugly sob during Jennie’s talk too 😉

  18. Kimberly Thompson says

    October 29, 2013 at 6:48 am

    What a beautiful experience!!

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