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Crystal Stine

Home / FMF / Five Minute Friday: Paint

Five Minute Friday: Paint

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"Every good painter" - Jackson Pollock

The harsh brush strokes of society and culture paint titles and expectations on us in colors so subtle we barely notice that we’re being covered. Images of success, self-sufficiency, pride, glory, and “you can do it all” swirl around us and we reach out to grab the one that shines brightest and shows us off in the best light. We look to see what everyone else is doing and try to mash that facade onto our canvas because it looks good, is good, works for her, and is what everyone is saying we should do.

I want to be a good painter. 

I don’t want to create, write, live like anyone else. You and I have been designed by the ultimate Creator – infinitely creative – not meant to reflect one another but to shine more Jesus. We invite Him in to our lives to cover the ugly splatters of sin with a coat of white. Fresh starts, clean canvases, and we throw away the brush of expectation and hand it back over to the only One who can see the masterpiece of our lives from start to finish.

You are uniquely you. Paint who you are. Write who you are. Live and work and mother and design and cook and shine – who you are. We will never be able to do it all – so let’s be inspired by who God has created us to be and do THAT really well. Let’s paint who we are.

Lisa Jo Baker FMF

April 10, 2014 ·

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  1. Amy says

    April 11, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    Yes and Amen !!! May I learn to stop comparing and create, write and live as myself

  2. Rebecca says

    April 11, 2014 at 6:16 pm

    Amen! Beautiful words Crystal!

  3. Janelle says

    April 11, 2014 at 3:09 pm

    You have a way with words friend. I’ve really seen your talent for writing taking off lately. I’m so excited for what the future holds for you, friend.

    Janelle

  4. Karrilee Aggett says

    April 11, 2014 at 12:58 pm

    “You are uniquely you. Paint who you are. Write who you are. Live and work and mother and design and cook and shine – who you are.” Oh Crystal – I LOVE this! Amen, sister!

  5. Kimberly A Edwards says

    April 11, 2014 at 11:57 am

    Amazing! Amen!

  6. Lisha Epperson says

    April 11, 2014 at 10:13 am

    “I don’t want to create, write, live like anyone else.” I’ve only heard your voice online but could feel the power in your heart as you wrote those words. Shine more Jesus….I like that. Let’s.

  7. TraciMLittle says

    April 11, 2014 at 10:12 am

    amen friend! Hopping over from FMF community

  8. Sarah says

    April 11, 2014 at 8:01 am

    Loved this so, Crystal.

  9. Tara Boswell- Horsley says

    April 11, 2014 at 7:46 am

    I am learning to me inspired by who God made me to me. I am going to paint who I am. I am thankful to be covered by his white paint over my ugly sins. I love that. I am uniquely designed. I am going to paint who I am, write who I am. I am going to live, work,mother and design,cook,shine who I am.

  10. Jamie Gunn says

    April 11, 2014 at 1:33 am

    What beautiful encouragement to be as we are created, and to reflect our Creator not any of His creation. Truly beautiful! Thank you

  11. Meredith Bernard says

    April 11, 2014 at 1:18 am

    Yes, let’s paint who we are! It’s hard enough to paint me without worrying about trying to be somebody else, anyway. Thank you for these words tonight. And so thankful to be covered by his white paint over my ugly sin…love that. Blessings!

  12. Mel says

    April 11, 2014 at 12:06 am

    “Paint who you are.” This is such a hard, good reminder…still trying to figure out exactly who that is, but I’m thankful He knows! Hope you are doing well, my friend. Wishing we could share coffee and a chat. Sending hugs!

  13. Becky Daye says

    April 10, 2014 at 11:43 pm

    And now I am singing the song “I see your true colors shining through…” 🙂 I love the idea of throwing away the brush of expectation. YES! I find I keep picking it back up though. Must keep throwing it away, because I want God’s work in me. Only His!
    Loved this post and loved seeing you even more! Much love to you!

  14. Positively Alene says

    April 10, 2014 at 11:19 pm

    Paint who you are. Oh how this breathes life into my soul, but takes it away all at the same time. Thanks girl@!!

  15. Asheritah Ciuciu says

    April 10, 2014 at 11:10 pm

    I LOVE this Polluck quote. You’re right: our true colors will come through, and what we paint with our life is what we are deep down inside. Thank you for this thought-provoking and beautiful post. (from another #fmfparty sister)

  16. Katie Reid says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:53 pm

    “Paint who you are. Write who you are. Live and work and mother and design and cook and shine – who you are.” Thank you for this post. For these lines in particular. A fresh cost of grace for this try-hard gal.:)

  17. Kim@onerebelheart says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    So hard to duck all those expectations placed on us by the world. What a great reminder to be who God created us to be!

    • Crystal says

      April 10, 2014 at 10:48 pm

      Those expectations are so sneaky – grateful for this community to keep me headed in the right direction 🙂

  18. Deanna Wiseburn says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:21 pm

    I Love this!! I know I have spent too much time in the past trying to be what others expected from me. So glad that we have been given the freedom to be who we are.

    • Crystal says

      April 10, 2014 at 10:46 pm

      Praise God for the breaking of those chains!

  19. Tonya says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:19 pm

    . Paint who you are. Write who you are. Live and work and mother and design and cook and shine – who you are —> Love this! So much YES and AMEN to this!

    • Crystal says

      April 10, 2014 at 10:45 pm

      Not too shabby for having NO IDEA what to do with this prompt 😉

  20. Holly Solomon Barrett says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:15 pm

    Learning to be who God has inspired me to be! Love this post, Crystal!

    • Crystal says

      April 10, 2014 at 10:45 pm

      Thanks so much Holly! From my perspective, God has inspired you to be someone pretty amazing 🙂

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